As new adoptive parents, we often felt like unworthy parents. We faced so many issues, which took us away from who we thought we were. We said things that were cruel even though we are kind, loving people. We often considered whether we were good parents. Adopt4Life helped lessen our anxiety and strengthen our confidence. We were able to laugh once again as so many other parents were experiencing the same things. The best part is the sharing of approaches that worked for others. Parent to parent support is essential.